Random ramblings of life in our household . . . and our journey through infertility and our arrival on the other side as we live life with our precious little boy brought to us through the gift of open domestic adoption.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Sometimes there is such a fine line between being concerned and being too involved. There's a fine line between caring, and overstepping bounds. There's a fine line between what's appropriate, and what's not.
Sometimes your brain tells you which side of the line to stay on. Sometimes your heart does the telling. And sometimes fear of doing the wrong thing does the telling.
And then there's that whole "You can't unring a bell" thing that keeps you from acting.
Sometimes it isn't enough to consider just the here and now, but the future, one year, 5, 10, 15 years, if not longer, down the road needs to be considered.
And in the end, I have to remind myself that it really isn't my place to get involved. And that's hard, because quite obviously somebody does need to get involved. And here I am back to balancing on the thin line again.
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I'm sorry. That sounds like a sticky spot to be in.
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Yucky situation to be in. Big hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteIt does not sound like a good situation to be in and I have been there. Hang in there and things will work out how they are supposed too!!
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