tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post3262691196210833646..comments2023-06-09T06:42:55.538-07:00Comments on Love, Hope and Faith: I Want the Fun Firsts BackChristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06347894813987993138noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-65161291450241365862009-01-26T13:33:00.000-07:002009-01-26T13:33:00.000-07:00I hope he's doing better! And don't you be so har...I hope he's doing better! And don't you be so hard on yourself about daycare. You have to do what's best for you guys on the whole. You love Andrew, and he knows it, and that's what counts! :)katdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04687817796634095367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-59048552519066165272009-01-24T22:49:00.000-07:002009-01-24T22:49:00.000-07:00Oh, it is so hard to see our babies sick! The Mom...Oh, it is so hard to see our babies sick! The Mommy guilt is terrible and you'd be feeling it even if he weren't in daycare because you'd be thinking about that woman at the grocery store who touched his hand and whether you should have wiped it off with a baby wipe afterward and that time at the restaurant that he was putting his hands all over the surfaces of the booth or that time he picked up your shoe and put it in his mouth...etc. :) Mommy guilt is unavoidable. I hope it helps to know that we SAHMs aren't exempt from it (and we aren't exempt from the colds, either) I hope your little boy is better fast.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-46718746531154961362009-01-23T17:07:00.000-07:002009-01-23T17:07:00.000-07:00On the sick firsts, I don't know what to say but I...On the sick firsts, I don't know what to say but I'm sure it sucks cuz you just want some of the fun stuff back, and want him to not be uncomfortable. But on the daycare thing, you do what you need to do. Don't ever feel bad about that - really. The generation we're in? Most of us can't afford any other situation.chicklethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16090701824999372199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-62054521723210340512009-01-23T14:01:00.000-07:002009-01-23T14:01:00.000-07:00So sorry he's still feeling crappy! I hope he get...So sorry he's still feeling crappy! I hope he gets a lot better over the weekend! My boy has a cold too and we went to the doctor today to find out it's just a nasty cold and we have to wait it out. He is also in daycare, but he caught the cold from me! Talk about feeling guilty!<BR/>Hope you have a better weekend than you expect!hope548https://www.blogger.com/profile/11951199252401108222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-88110138974000826882009-01-23T12:40:00.000-07:002009-01-23T12:40:00.000-07:00This is NOT your fault! not at all. You just lov...This is NOT your fault! not at all. You just love on him and get himfeeling better. Momie guilt is plagued in EVERYTHINGAwkwardMomentshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11854477296635420810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-78425476927192731182009-01-22T20:22:00.000-07:002009-01-22T20:22:00.000-07:00Don't feel bad about putting him in daycare. You ...Don't feel bad about putting him in daycare. You have to do what is best for your family right now.<BR/><BR/>As far as daycare causing him to get sick I know a mom who doesn't take her kids anywhere, and they have come down with some of the weirdest illnesses. I think some kids are just more suseptible.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-77794840795092734212009-01-22T16:32:00.000-07:002009-01-22T16:32:00.000-07:00[A lurker but never a commenter, I don't think. G...[A lurker but never a commenter, I don't think. Got here from LFCA ages ago.]<BR/><BR/>Just piping to assure you that daycare makes for amazing immune systems. After about a year of daycare crud (and plenty of opportunities to feel like the crappiest parents ever for sending our little person to daycare), she has had an ironclad immune system. If my memory serves, it's been 13 months (!) since she's been sick at all, and she's still in preschool.<BR/><BR/>Sorry that he's sick, though. That sucks. Wishing him a quick recovery!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-19960891844830798532009-01-22T09:25:00.000-07:002009-01-22T09:25:00.000-07:00Dont feel guilty, u do what you have to do to make...Dont feel guilty, u do what you have to do to make a better life for your family. I'm sure some of those very doctors were in daycare... it will make that time you spend with him more treasured.Lesliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17874631788805792377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-46602926620096256972009-01-22T09:12:00.000-07:002009-01-22T09:12:00.000-07:00Sorry he is sick still. Never blame yourself for ...Sorry he is sick still. Never blame yourself for him going to day care. Guilt is a horrible thing so don't let it control you. Besides I have plenty of guilt for not sending my kids to daycare and socializing them, so it works both ways. Don't feel bad. You just do what you have to do and be happy that he is a happy baby. Besides, my kids were sick all the time as babies too. I hope he gets well soon.<BR/><BR/>Laurie<BR/><BR/>Laurie D.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-20677347761054779272009-01-22T07:47:00.000-07:002009-01-22T07:47:00.000-07:00Umm, and Andrew will also be socialized and more s...Umm, and Andrew will also be socialized and more self sufficient and able to function in the real world by making his needs known and negotiating for what he needs, unlike a lot of the kids in my church who have stay at home mum's and are basket cases. I think, in the end, it will be ok. <BR/><BR/>But I sure am sorry he's sick again.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-23158628118939634352009-01-22T06:48:00.000-07:002009-01-22T06:48:00.000-07:00Sorry he is so sick! I hope he gets better soon. ...Sorry he is so sick! I hope he gets better soon. You know, the daycare rap is not totally true. Some kids go to daycare and don't get sick, some kids get sick without being in daycare. It just happens sometimes. Don't feel guilty about it--and you are right--he will have a good immune system! My son barely ever gets sick now--his first year was sickness hell.Delennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12567889031642608101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32923646.post-51238018768035120722009-01-22T06:15:00.000-07:002009-01-22T06:15:00.000-07:00Oh what a bummer. I hope that Andrew gets better s...Oh what a bummer. I hope that Andrew gets better soon and you all get some rest.Soapchickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13899175649394809612noreply@blogger.com